Life has undergone significant changes since the arrival of your baby, and as first-time parents, you may find yourselves faced with numerous questions and uncertainties about how to care for your newborn. This guide offers valuable insights to help you quickly gain confidence in nurturing your infant.
Seeking Assistance After Your Baby’s Arrival
It’s crucial to remember that taking care of your baby also involves taking care of yourself. During this potentially chaotic and overwhelming period, consider seeking assistance. Friends and family may be eager to help, even though you may have differing opinions on certain aspects of childcare. Their own experiences can offer valuable insights.
To ensure your baby’s well-being, it’s essential that anyone handling your little one is up to date on their vaccinations and feeling in good health. However, if you’re not comfortable with visitors or have specific concerns, don’t hesitate to limit the number of guests to avoid feeling overwhelmed or guilty.
Handling Your Newborn
If you’re new to caring for newborns, they may appear delicate. Here are some fundamental guidelines to keep in mind:
Hand Hygiene: Always wash your hands (or use hand sanitizer) before handling your baby. Newborns have underdeveloped immune systems, making them susceptible to infections. Ensure that anyone touching your baby has clean hands.
Head and Neck Support: Cradle your baby’s head and neck when carrying them. This support is crucial whether you’re carrying your baby or laying them down.
Never Shake Your Baby: Shaking your baby, whether out of playfulness or frustration, can lead to severe consequences, including bleeding in the brain and even death. If you need to wake your baby, avoid shaking. Instead, try gentle stimulation, like tickling their feet or blowing gently on their cheek.
Secure Fastening: When using a carrier, stroller, or car seat, always fasten your baby securely. Avoid activities that could be too rough or bouncy.
Avoid Rough Play: Steer clear of rough play with newborns, such as jiggling them on your knee or tossing them in the air.
Bonding With Your Baby
Bonding is established in the first few hours and days following birth when parents create a deep connection with their child. Physical closeness is vital in forming an emotional bond and aiding your baby’s overall development. Think of bonding as “falling in love” with your baby. Children thrive when they have a parent or caregiver who loves them unconditionally.
To begin the bonding process, cradle and gently stroke your baby in various patterns. Skin-to-skin contact, often referred to as kangaroo care, is an excellent technique. This involves holding your newborn against your bare chest, which helps calm and soothe them while regulating their heartbeat. Both mothers and fathers can practice this form of bonding.
Soothing Your Baby
Helping your baby relax is essential for their happiness and comfort. Here are some tips for soothing your baby:
Massage: Infant massage, especially beneficial for premature babies or those with medical issues, can enhance bonding and promote growth and development. Ensure you massage your baby gently, as they are not as strong as adults.
Sounds: Babies generally enjoy vocal sounds, such as talking, babbling, singing, and cooing. Soft music, baby rattles, and musical mobiles can stimulate your baby’s hearing. If your baby is fussy, try singing, reciting poetry and nursery rhymes, or reading aloud while gently swaying or rocking them.
Swaddling: Swaddling, a technique that keeps a baby’s arms close to their body while allowing their legs to move slightly, can provide warmth and a sense of security. Proper swaddling may also help reduce the startle reflex. However, be cautious not to swaddle too tightly, as this could increase the risk of hip dysplasia.
Diapering Your Baby
Whether you opt for cloth or disposable diapers, expect to change your baby’s diaper approximately 10 times a day, or about 70 times a week. When changing your baby’s diaper:
Ensure you have all the necessary supplies within reach.
Gently wipe your baby from front to back using water, cotton balls, a washcloth, or wipes.
Apply diaper cream as needed to address diaper rash.
Always wash your hands after changing the diaper.
Bathing Your Baby
During the first few weeks, newborns receive sponge baths. After the umbilical cord stump falls off and any circumcision heals (if applicable), you can begin giving your baby baths in a sink or a small plastic infant tub.
The initial tub baths should be gentle and brief. If your baby becomes upset, revert to sponge baths for a week or two before attempting tub baths again. Bathing your baby two or three times a week in the first year is typically sufficient, as more frequent baths can dry out their skin.
Umbilical Cord and Circumcision Care
Umbilical Cord Care: Clean around the cord stump with plain water and gently blot it dry until the stump dries up and falls off, usually within 10 days to 3 weeks. Avoid submerging the belly button area in water until the stump falls off and the area heals. Color changes from yellow to brown or black before it falls off are normal. Contact your doctor if the area appears red, emits a bad odor, or has discharge.
Circumcision Care: After circumcision, doctors typically apply petroleum jelly to the tip of the baby’s penis and cover it with gauze to prevent it from sticking to the diaper. At each diaper change, gently cleanse the tip with warm water (not baby wipes), then apply petroleum jelly and gauze. Any redness or irritation should heal within a few days to a week, but consult your baby’s doctor if it worsens or pus-filled blisters develop, as these could be signs of infection.
Feeding Your Baby
Whether you’re breastfeeding or using a bottle, it’s common to wonder about the feeding schedule. Newborns should be fed on demand, which means whenever they show signs of hunger. These signs might include crying, putting fingers in their mouth, or making sucking noises. Newborns usually need to be fed every 2–3 hours.
Breastfed babies are likely getting enough nourishment if they appear satisfied, have about 6 wet diapers and several bowel movements a day, sleep well, and gain weight regularly. You can also gauge milk consumption by observing if your breasts feel full before feeding and less full afterward. For formula-fed babies, it’s easier to assess if they are getting enough to eat. If you have concerns about your baby’s growth or feeding schedule, consult your doctor.
To prevent babies from swallowing air during feedings, be sure to burp them regularly.
Understanding Your Baby’s Sleep
Newborns typically sleep for about 16 hours a day, with periods of 2–4 hours at a time. Some babies may sleep through the night (6–8 hours) by the age of 3 months, but it’s not a concern if yours doesn’t, as babies develop their own sleep patterns.
Safe sleep practices include:
Placing babies on their backs to sleep to reduce the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS).
Avoiding blankets, quilts, bumpers, stuffed animals, or pillows in the crib or bassinet to prevent suffocation.
